Saturday, April 29, 2023

Past is a cancelled cheque, future is promissory note.

This analogy suggest that the past is like a cancelled cheque, which has already been paid and cannot be changed. Similarly, events that have already happened in our lives cannot be altered and we must learn to accept and move on from them. 

On the other hand,future is like a promissory note, which represents a promise to pay a certain amount at a later date. This suggest that the past cannot be altered or undone. On the other hand the future is compared to a promissory note, which is a written promise to pay a specified amount of money or positive results at a later date. It implies that future is not  fixed and can be shaped by the actions and decisions we make today. 

Just like a promissory note, can be altered or cancelled if the terms of agreement change, our
future also can be influenced by the choice we make along the way. Thus, this analogy emphasizes the importance of being proactive and taking responsibility for our actions in the present to shape our future. 

Therefore, it's important to focus to live in the pesent and make most out of it. The present moment is the the only thing that we can control over and make a difference in. We can use the present to learn from past experience and make better decisions for the future. By living in the present moment, we can prioritize our actions and make the most of our time. So, it is important to focus on the present and make the most out of it. 

Thursday, April 27, 2023

Completing PhD against all odds.

 My journey in completing my PhD was not an easy one. I come from a troubled background, with an abusive alcoholic father. Despite this I was determined to succeed academically no matter how long it takes.I had an ambition to be a medical Doctor since childhood but never materialized. 

I found refuge in my work and studies foremost and worked tirelessly to excell in my field of study. However the challenges were not limited just on my personal life but also compromised health condition towards the end of my PhD program that I almost gave up. 

Upon completing my Diploma in Electrical & Electronics Engineering with First Class Diploma,  I failed to enroll to number of universities in UK and Australia not due to my results but could not afford the fees. I started my job career in Singapore and pursue part time degree education. However, after a few years, I forced to terminate my studies due to financial constraints.  I tried few universities in similar manner, and that too ended in failure due to inability to pay up university fees. 

After seven years in Singapore,  I decided to come back to Malaysia for good. Nevertheless, my desire to complete my higher education doesn't end. I continued pursue MBA program while employed as Quality Manager. Sacrificed weekends on academic coursework, classic music lessons in Singapore.

Managed to complete my MBA in 3 years while taking care two manufacturing plant. It indeed took a tool on my health condition. I had to quit job to regain my health back on track. I went to my sister's house in Melaka and managed to enrol on a PhD program for 5 years. Luck was in my side. I secured a government grant. 

Trauma from past experience indeed haunted me while pursuing my PhD. Luckily I had few wonderful peers who kept my spirit high at all times. Finally after years of hard work and determination I submitted my thesis. Passed my VIVA at one go. Despite the many challenges and setbacks, I made it and finally graduated with a doctoral degree in management in 2022.



Wednesday, April 26, 2023

Most satisfying experience in my life.

Finishing my PhD is one of the most rewarding experience of my academic career.It involved years of hard work, dedication, and perseverance, but ultimately, the feeling of accomplishment and the sense of pride that comes with the earning my doctoral degree made it all worth it.

Throughout the journey, I faced many challenges, including the stress of conducting research, the pressure to meet the dateline, the accosional doubt about ability to complete it, it's all worth it. 

Throughout my journey, I conducted extensive research, tedious surveys throughout peninsular Malaysia. The culmination of my efforts was the comprehensive dissertation that I defended successfully in front of esteemed expert panel members from few universities.

The sense of accomplishment I felt upon completing my PhD was indescribable. It was an honor to join the rank of other PhD holders and contribute to the pool of knowledge in my field of study. Over ,finishing PhD is a transformative experience. Nevertheless, this is just a beginning stage..education never ends! 

Life titbits.





 

Tribute to Mr & Mrs Krishnan


 

Why people don't see the good things done to them!

 This is a common human tendency to focus on what others have not done for us rather than appreciating what they have already done.We often take things for granted and tend to overlook the efforts and kindness of others. This can lead to sense of entitlement where we expect people to do things for us without showing any gratitude or reciprocation. 

It's important to cultivate a sense of  gratitude and for granted and forget the efforts and sacrifices that people have made for us. We tend to overlook the small act of kindness and love people have shown us and instead, we give more importance to their short comings and failures.

It's important to realize that no one is perfect and everyone has their limitation and faults. However this shouldn't give us a reason to disregard the positive things that someone has done for us. ,no matter how small it may seem.

Instead of focusing on negative aspects of others, we should try to have a more positive outlook and appreciate the efforts of those around us. This will not only bring more positivity into our lives but also strengthen our relationships with others.