Sunday, July 24, 2022

Understanding life 2

No matter how hard you try to please someone or be good to them in life, be it, friends or family members, they smile and sweet talk in front of you but at the back, they may frown or indulge in downgrading your character.
They will always see the negative side of you. They never see the good things you have done for them. So, never try to please anyone. Once a good deed is done, reciprocate. Even then don't expect they will not stop talking bad about you.
Nevertheless, just be as what you are. Keep moving up the life ladder without looking down. Divine knows your intentions. Keep up the energy.

Understanding life 1

Have you ever felt that there will be a time you started to see the real hidden character of people you're connected with you who talk and portray or treat you caringly but behind their fickle mind actually loothes you, have strong bad opinions about you. You thought all these while they are super nice to you. The very individuals that you put on high esteem, you praise and talk highly about them and their contribution towards your growth or well-being but actually behind those veiled ignorant emotional mind these related person goes around expounding their deep down cringing, dissatisfaction and out right condemnation expressed to others about their hidden feeling when their expectations are not met one way or another.

Once you came to know about this, how would you feel? Dismay, shocked and demoralized, saddened? You at last will never see how that relationship will move forward strongly. No matter how they treat you nicely the next time, you know deep down in your heart that it's a fake thing. Never the same again..This is how friendship and family relationships deteriorate towards discontinuity thereafter. Deep down yourself, you have never had any bad intentions, harming thoughts, or disrespecting but did all possible things within your means and capacity at that time.

Thank the divinity to show you their actual mindset. These are the things they don't teach you in schools or institutions. Life experience grinds you to mature to see how souls relate to one another and unravel their true colors.In the end, you have just realized relationships, be it friends or blood ties are just illusions and temporary. Each soul experiences a life journey on its own term. No matter what come may, you just appreciate everyone's support and help rendered, wish them well, pray for their good wellness. You had to move your life on a different path not create further animosity. You realized you cannot depend on anyone but your own spine and self-belief!