The problem of most of the people around you is inconsistency
in words they say versus the action they do. They sizzle in the beginning and
then fizzles out in a short moment like a can of bottled soda being opened. I
am so accustomed to this kind type of personalities! They thought that life is
all about themselves and their family. No matter how spiritual and religious
they portray outwardly, inwardly its all about “self”. If you are of use to their
needs, they stick with you, praise you high. Otherwise they just dump you for
good. Beware this kind of energy sucking friends.
Nobody is perfect, so have to accept the stark reality
that what good for us is not necessarily good for others and vice versa.
Everyone has their priorities. So, the relationship with others shall be based
on give and take. Don’t be too attached and place high expectation. This will
avoid you being ended up draining your vital energy.
No matter what, you have to walk your life journey
alone, not expecting people around you will see your trial and tribulation or empathize to your predicament. Few will understand you, encourage you to move on but the
majority of the simply have no time and treat you as a passing cloud, possibly
only want you when your chips are up, use for their objective to meet their
goals. Keep a distance away from such people. Just allow yourself to sail along
the river of life on its own term. There is no right or wrong in life, just
breathe along.
