"Test your friendship and love with time," Gurudeva.
When times are good, they encircle you and enjoy the fruit of life niceties together, you and them do good things together, have fun together, like to be part of them because of a common goal, but when you're down, they ignore you, they redirect their life to business goals, don't have time to think about other people problems, it's all about my life, my family, my children; their master is strong entrepreneurial business leaders who seldom don't guide the proper balancing acts, forgetting spiritual pursuits that binds. the adage to only mix with "successful business people," be like me, earn like me, dreams pursuance that often conflicts with basic spiritual law. We'll tend to fall into this trap due to ignorance. I am not an angel myself here!!
Many read or listen to THE SECRET with erroneous understanding without knowing the complication that comes with law of attraction without boundary.
They don't bother about your well-being, therefore, we should take it as soothing medicine of past karma returning effect. Keep moving on with our spiritual goals, aligning with our preceptor. Thanking everyone in that process. Remember the good deeds that they've done to you. No hate feelings, just love!
Doing business with close friends must be scrutinized with astrological compatibility before entering into a partnership, likewise, when seeking life partners, except in the case when love already been development, then compatibility is just a future reference and guidance, otherwise unsettlingly complication would arise, creating animosity, mistrust, broken relationship. Karma takes its effect for both to be reconciled.
If one fail to follow one's preceptors guides and do the given sadhana, complication will manifest on the physical plane where karma works in its natural way. I learned this the hard way.