This is a common human tendency to focus on what others have not done for us rather than appreciating what they have already done.We often take things for granted and tend to overlook the efforts and kindness of others. This can lead to sense of entitlement where we expect people to do things for us without showing any gratitude or reciprocation.
It's important to cultivate a sense of gratitude and for granted and forget the efforts and sacrifices that people have made for us. We tend to overlook the small act of kindness and love people have shown us and instead, we give more importance to their short comings and failures.
It's important to realize that no one is perfect and everyone has their limitation and faults. However this shouldn't give us a reason to disregard the positive things that someone has done for us. ,no matter how small it may seem.
Instead of focusing on negative aspects of others, we should try to have a more positive outlook and appreciate the efforts of those around us. This will not only bring more positivity into our lives but also strengthen our relationships with others.