It's a fascinating and unpredictable
life. Somewhat we thought we are in control of our body and destiny. How ironic
we encounter the worst of human species able to live a good and disease free
life as compared to the opposite soul who values every creation as an extension of
him/herself but inflict pains and suffering others can't fathom. In religious
beliefs they explained this conditions due to past karma, God's test and etc.
Who knows better than nature. Just take it as nature's way of teaching us the
value of life encompasses beyond physical senses and associated feelings.
There are far worst condition people
than we are. Handicapped, blind, incomplete limbs, deaf and dumb, mentally
changed, down syndrome, gender deformation and many more. We don't have other
choice than be grateful whatever present conditions dictates our ability or
condition. Thanking the unseen force that we may call God, almighty, or any
other names according to one's belief system. Do belief that all our good deeds
and action brings positive returns sometime in any of our present or future
lives. Hidden powerful nature knows when and how to rewards it's earthly
helpers or healers at the right time. Keep being the instrument of God helping
anyone and living beings because He knows who can be His helper without Him
being present. No matter what just be cheerful and be in joy.
I have met people who are highly
religious and spiritual. So disciplined and practice rituals like performing
and observing strict fasting, all the religious important day and dates, going
for spiritual pilgrimages, retreats and body pain inflicting vows/ pledges but shows no
feelings towards other living creatures, fellow human beings lesser status
condition than them. They chase away beggars in front of their house gate, they
pour litters of milk away in the name of glorifying and paying homage to their
Gods but resent hungry destitute. Turn face away seeing poor guy in tattered
clothes.
They sing soothing songs praising
Lords and Gods like no other but no qualms using hurtful words to others they
feel not happy or offended. Easily fall to angers, revengeful etc. High religious’
knowledge but in practice do everything opposite as compared to those who do it
without all those hypocrisy tendencies and fake identity. These hypocrites are likely to gain motivation from a
desire to look good, more than an internal desire to satisfy personal goals.
This stems from feeling of insecurity as a result of selfishness. I value those
with humanistic touch in their deportment.
What choice we have to face such
people in life? We can avoid meeting such people in our life. Learn to identify
such people and be more conscious, taking note by avoiding their destructive character
overshadowing you to minimise damage. These are some tips on how to life with
such people around you:
Ignore everyone and act only based on your own moral compass, avoid
condemning others, identify context and how it changes the way you think, listen
to your cognitive dissonance, Reserve judgment until you've actually
experienced something, practice integrity, never make promises, Don't overly trust
your friends.
