இனிய தமிழ் புத்தாண்டு நல்வாழ்த்துக்கள் 2025!

புதுமைகள் நிறைந்த புதிய ஆண்டில்
உங்கள் வாழ்கை மகிழ்ச்சியும்,
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வாழ்க வளமுடன்! 🌸🎉🙏

🌸 Happy Tamil New Year 2025 – Iniya Puthandu Nalvazhthukkal! 🌸

As we step into this auspicious new year, may your life be filled with light, love, and lasting joy. May each day ahead bring you new opportunities, inspiring moments, and peaceful reflections.

Let this Puthandu be a beautiful beginning—
✨ Where worries fade away like the setting sun
✨ Where dreams rise like the golden rays of dawn
✨ And where your heart is full of gratitude, strength, and hope

May your home be filled with laughter, your mind with clarity, and your spirit with boundless energy.
Wishing you and your loved ones prosperity, good health, and endless blessings in the coming year.

Let tradition remind us of who we are, and let the future inspire who we can become.

Vazhga Valamudan! 🙏💫

Liars often keep lying for a few reasons.

 Liars often keep lying for a few key reasons:

1. To maintain the original lie – One lie usually leads to another to keep the story straight. It's like building a house of cards; one false move (or truth) can make it all collapse.

2. Fear of consequences – They’re afraid of what will happen if the truth comes out. This could be punishment, shame, or loss of trust.

3. Habitual behavior – For some, lying becomes second nature. It can start as a defense mechanism and grow into a reflex.

4. Manipulation or control – Some lie to influence others, maintain power, or control situations.

5. Self-image protection – Lies might help them present a version of themselves they think is more acceptable or impressive.

6. They believe the lie. Over time, some liars convince themselves their lies are true, especially if repeated often.

Alright, let’s dive in.

• Pathological liars – people who lie compulsively, often without clear benefit?

• Manipulative liars – those who lie to control others or situations?

• White liars – the “harmless” lies to spare feelings?

• Lying in relationships, friendships, or at work?

• Or something more personal or specific?

 Painful and confusing, especially when it’s someone close and trusted. If your close family friend lies often—and in a way that feels convincing or rigid—there could be a few deep-rooted reasons behind it. Here’s a breakdown of what might be going on:

1. They’ve Built a False Identity

Some people lie so consistently that the lies become part of their identity. It’s not just about hiding things—it’s about presenting a version of themselves that they wish were true or that they think others will accept more easily.

They may be:

• Insecure about who they are

• Afraid of rejection or judgment

• Trying to maintain a certain image

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2. Compulsive or Pathological Lying

This can be a psychological condition, not necessarily malicious, but deeply ingrained. They lie:

• Even when it makes no sense

• Even when the truth would work just fine

• With incredible detail and confidence

This kind of lying often feels rigid and “real” because they believe their own stories—or they’ve rehearsed the lies in their head so much that they become second nature.

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3. Trauma or Past Experiences

Sometimes, people grow up in environments where lying was necessary—maybe to survive, avoid punishment, or gain approval. That pattern can stick, even when they’re no longer in danger.

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4. Desire to Control Perception or Outcomes

Lying can become a tool if they want to control how people see them or how situations unfold. It’s strategic, but over time, it becomes a habit.

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5. Lack of Emotional Maturity

They might not have the emotional strength to face consequences, admit mistakes, or deal with the discomfort of the truth. So they lie instead, and then double down to avoid being exposed.

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So, What Can You Do?

• Trust your gut – If something feels off, it probably is.

• Set boundaries – You don’t need to tolerate repeated dishonesty, even from close friends.

• Call out gently – If you feel safe, bring up specific instances. Sometimes they don’t even realize how damaging it is.

• Protect your peace – Dishonesty can wear you down emotionally. You’re allowed to step back.