Happy Vijayadasami

Wishing Vijayadasami to my dearest teachers, Smt Raji and Ms Yoges

Two workshops in a day: The secret of overcoming money blockage & Vasanas of the Soul

Secret of Overcoming Money Blockage by Master R.Sivaperumal

Activating Money Chakra. 

Secret of Attracting Money Energy towards You!

By UniversalMind Management

Date : 13. 08. 2017 ( Sunday)

7.00pm - 10.00 am

Call : Mr Das - 0167440966 / 0184612700

Inspiring Youth for greatness & Kid's Health

Two day seminar for SPM and PT3 school children to motivate them to do their best in the coming important exam. A total of 50 students attended this seminar at Warnasari tuition center in Taman Mutiara Rini, JB.

Happy Guru Purnima

Happy Birthday Raji T'cher

My Indian classical vocal teacher's birthday today. Wishing her Happy birthday and many more happy returns to her. She had sacrificed all her life in teaching divine vocal music to her dear students. Her dedication and focus on her students are awesome! Thank you, T'cher from bottom of our hearts.

Mount Ophir (Gunung Ledang) waterfall picnic

Nieces and nephews enjoying the cool and refreshing stream water at Mt Ophir (Gunung Ledang), near Tangak, Johor.

Malaysia Demographics (2016 Stats')

Selamat menyambut Hari Raya Aidilfitri

Kepada semua kawan2 yang beragama Islam, di mana jua anda berada: 

Selamat menyambut Hari Raya Aidilfitri

(To all the friends who are Muslims, wherever you are: Eid-Al-Fitr)

Breakfast for the organs

      Fruits and vegetables are nutritious food for breaking the fast in the morning. The first thing in the after getting-up, soon after refreshing (brush teeth and bath), I'd blend few fruits or a combination of fruits and vegetable(s); fill the empty stomach. The organs loves this smoothie! 

Father and a Man

Little India, Kuala Lumpur

Morning Joy by Pond Side

Memory & Focus - An Exclusive Program by Prof DrKader

Ode For Cousin

Finding Divinity

Emotionally abusive parents

Does Slapping Teach Respect?

Some abusive parents will call slapping "discipline" or "correcting wrong behavior."

I just talked to a mother and father from Ireland. I said, "Since you are parents, I have a question for you about raising children. I just got this email from a friend of mine who is 18. She said her mother slapped her last week. She asked me what gives her mother the right to do this. She said that if she were not happy with someone at the store, she would not be able to reach out and slap the sales clerk. She said this would be illegal. It would be assault. What do you think about this?"

The mother answered by saying, "Well, you need to be able to correct your children." I then said, "I agree, but it seems to me that 18 is a bit old to still be slapping your child. What do you think?"

She said, "Well, yes, I suppose it is. If you haven't been able to teach your child respect by that age then there is probably something wrong."

I then said, "But is it really respect you are teaching, or fear? For example, if you respect me and I ask you to pass me the sugar, you probably will. But if I have been treating you disrespectfully, without respect for your feelings or needs, then you might tell me to get lost. You might even pull the sugar away from me so I can't reach it. On the other hand if I point a gun at you and say, "Will you please pass me the sugar?" you will probably pass me the sugar. But is this because you respect me or because you are afraid of me?"

She seemed to see my point, but said "I suppose you think it is never necessary to slap a child." I said, "I don't know. I don't have children myself." She then said, "Well, you have to teach them right from wrong."

Her teenage daughter was sitting there in silence the entire time. The look on her face told me she was too afraid to even look up from her meal. I suspected that she one of the things she had been "taught" by the mother, was never to voice her own opinion. To do so would be "wrong" and deserving of a slap to the face. In this way the daughter had indeed learned right from wrong, at least according to her mother.

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What is Emotional Abuse?

Abuse is any behavior that is designed to control and subjugate another human being through the use of fear, humiliation, intimidation, guilt, coercion, manipulation etc. Emotional abuse is any kind of abuse that is emotional rather than physical in nature. It can include anything from verbal abuse and constant criticism to more subtle tactics, such as repeated disapproval or even the refusal to ever be pleased.

Emotional abuse is like brain washing in that it systematically wears away at the victim's self-confidence, sense of self-worth, trust in their own perceptions, and self-concept. Whether it is done by constant berating and belittling, by intimidation, or under the guise of "guidance," "teaching", or "advice," the results are similar. Eventually, the recipient of the abuse loses all sense of self and remnants of personal value. 

Emotional abuse cuts to the very core of a person, creating scars that may be far deeper and more lasting that physical ones. In fact there is research to this effect. With emotional abuse, the insults, insinuations, criticism and accusations slowly eat away at the victim's self-esteem until she is incapable of judging the situation realistically. She has become so beaten down emotionally that she blames herself for the abuse. Her self-esteem is so low that she clings to the abuser.

Emotional abuse victims can become so convinced that they are worthless that they believe that no one else could want them. They stay in abusive situations because they believe they have nowhere else to go. Their ultimate fear is being all alone.

Emotional abuse can also be called psychological abuse, mental abuse. If it occurs within a family it can be called psychological incest or emotional incest.

EQI.org

In my own world

Sons of the Sun

PERSONAL PSYCHOLOGY & BRAIN LEARNING TECHNIQUES

Day 1 : 27th May 2017 - SATURDAY @ Time : 08.00pm to 11.00pm
Day 2 : 28th July 2017- SUNDAY @ Time : 10.00am to 06.00pm

Course Objectives:-
The main objective of this course is to introduce course participants to the basic principles of personal psychology and brain learning techniques. A secondary objective is to help in the development of professional expertise in these fields.
Syllabus:-

PPB 001: CHILD PSYCHOLOGY
• Introduction to Child Psychology
• Fundamental Principles of Child Development
• Heredity, Environment and Maturation
• Motor Development
• Emotional Development
• Learning
• Mental Development
• Development of Memory
• Language And Thought.

PPB 002 : SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY AND HUMAN RESOURCE DEVELOPMENT
• Nature and Scope of Social Psychology
• Methods of Social Psychology
• Culture and Personality
• Social Groups
• Introduction to Human Resource Development
• Human Skills
• Manpower Development
• Psycho-Social Analysis

PPB 003- : EDUCATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY AND PSYCHOTHERAPY
• Growth and Development
• Intelligence
• Guidance
• Learning
• Personality
• The Process of Therapy
• Introduction to Psychotherapy
• Cantered Psychotherapy
• Play Therapy
• The Attitudes and Orientations of the Counsellors
• The Training of Counsellors and Therapists

PPB 004: BRAIN LEARNING TECHNIQUES
• Getting into the right Mind-set for Learning
• Getting the Facts to Suit Yourself
• Exploring a subject
• Memorizing the Key Facts
• Showing You Know
• Reflecting on How You Learn

Intended Participants:-
The course is especially designed for people in the training and teaching profession, students , psychologists , researchers, businessmen, and parents, but all those interested in the subject will also find much to interest them.

Fee: RM399.00 (Including Module, Certificate & Refreshments)

Venue:
WMTC - KL
Winning Management Training Center 33-01-05,
Villa Scott, Jalan Scott, Brickfields, Kuala Lumpur.

Note:
14 yrs and above are encouraged to participate in this Talk....
This Seminar will be conducted in TAMIL

Kindly book your seats ASAP as seats are limited.
Please call 014 6311 631 / 012 3712 080 for further details.

DON’T miss this TALK!!!...

Please visit given link for further info:-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuMf5jWpDuM

Shri Mayuranathar Alayam ( Shrimath Pamban Swamigal Thirukhovil) in Dengkil, Selagor

http://mayuranathar.org/