Flow with the River of Life
Flow gently with the river of life.
Do not struggle—let it carry you,
for it knows the way to the ocean of joy.
Along the journey, some companions may part.
They seek greener pastures, chasing illusions,
trading true jewels for glittering fakes.
Let them go.
Time is the great teacher—
it will show them the value of what they left behind.
You, who stayed true, will find peace
where the river meets the sea.
We never grow alone. Along our journey, countless hands have lifted us—supporters, caregivers, and silent helpers who shaped who we are today. Yet, in the rush of chasing dreams and personal fulfillment, we often forget the very people who paved the way for us.
இனிய தமிழ் புத்தாண்டு நல்வாழ்த்துக்கள் 2025!
புதுமைகள் நிறைந்த புதிய ஆண்டில்🌸 Happy Tamil New Year 2025 – Iniya Puthandu Nalvazhthukkal! 🌸
As we step into this auspicious new year, may your life be filled with light, love, and lasting joy. May each day ahead bring you new opportunities, inspiring moments, and peaceful reflections.
Let this Puthandu be a beautiful beginning—
✨ Where worries fade away like the setting sun
✨ Where dreams rise like the golden rays of dawn
✨ And where your heart is full of gratitude, strength, and hope
May your home be filled with laughter, your mind with clarity, and your spirit with boundless energy.
Wishing you and your loved ones prosperity, good health, and endless blessings in the coming year.
Let tradition remind us of who we are, and let the future inspire who we can become.
Vazhga Valamudan! 🙏💫
Liars often keep lying for a few key reasons:
To maintain the original lie – One lie usually leads to another to keep the story straight. It's like building a house of cards; one false move (or truth) can make it all collapse.
Fear of consequences – They’re afraid of what will happen if the truth comes out. This could be punishment, shame, or loss of trust.
Habitual behavior – For some, lying becomes second nature. It can start as a defense mechanism and grow into a reflex.
Manipulation or control – Some lie to influence others, maintain power, or control situations.
Self-image protection – Lies might help them present a version of themselves they think is more acceptable or impressive.
They believe the lie. Over time, some liars convince themselves their lies are true, especially if repeated often.
Alright, let’s dive in.
Pathological liars – people who lie compulsively, often without clear benefit?
Manipulative liars – those who lie to control others or situations?
White liars – the “harmless” lies to spare feelings?
Lying in relationships, friendships, or at work?
Or something more personal or specific?
Some people lie so consistently that the lies become part of their identity. It’s not just about hiding things—it’s about presenting a version of themselves that they wish were true or that they think others will accept more easily.
They may be:
Insecure about who they are
Afraid of rejection or judgment
Trying to maintain a certain image
This can be a psychological condition, not necessarily malicious, but deeply ingrained. They lie:
Even when it makes no sense
Even when the truth would work just fine
With incredible detail and confidence
This kind of lying often feels rigid and “real” because they believe their own stories—or they’ve rehearsed the lies in their head so much that they become second nature.
Sometimes, people grow up in environments where lying was necessary—maybe to survive, avoid punishment, or gain approval. That pattern can stick, even when they’re no longer in danger.
Lying can become a tool if they want to control how people see them or how situations unfold. It’s strategic, but over time, it becomes a habit.
They might not have the emotional strength to face consequences, admit mistakes, or deal with the discomfort of the truth. So they lie instead, and then double down to avoid being exposed.
Trust your gut – If something feels off, it probably is.
Set boundaries – You don’t need to tolerate repeated dishonesty, even from close friends.
Call out gently – If you feel safe, bring up specific instances. Sometimes they don’t even realize how damaging it is.
Protect your peace – Dishonesty can wear you down emotionally. You’re allowed to step back.
